We may look like grown-ups and even think we have grown up with every passing birthday, but unless you heal the subconscious wounds from your childhood, you are destined to continue to live out the sabotaging behaviour that exposes these wounds in different areas of your life.
We think we are consciously in control of our thoughts, but the truth is by the time we are 35 years old we are a set of predictable thoughts, feelings and behaviours.
Your Inner Child is part of your subconscious mind and is responsible for 95% of your thoughts, feelings and behaviours.
Low self-esteem and confidence can be traced back to the formative 1st 7 years in early childhood where your brain is predominantly in theta and delta brain waves which are rooted in the subconscious mind.
These states make you highly suggestible and are responsible for your automatic behaviours as this is where your brain, particularly your ability to discern, and belief systems are being created by your experiences, associations and environment.
So, if you have grown up in hostile environments with volatile or abusive parents, it is highly likely your inner child does not feel seen, heard, held, felt, understood, S.A.F.E. And worthy of love.
By the time we are 8 years old, 85% of the neural pathways in our brains are completely hardwired. Meaning that 85% of who we are by 8 years old is a set of predictable thoughts, feelings and behaviours.
And since the majority of these thoughts, feelings and behaviours are trapped in the subconscious mind, we are typically not even aware of them, therefore we are already headed for a predictable future of repeating our painful past.
Furthermore, any "successes" are short lived as we feel destined to die alone if we have grown up with early childhood trauma.
S.A.F.E. helps to gently heal the subconscious pain of your inner child so you feel worthy of love and live life fun, free and fulfilled.
It is of course important to be vulnerable as this makes us relatable and of course loveable..
But being vulnerable is not to be confused with complaining and choosing to stay stuck in the story as the victim
You must be responsible for your own healing!!!
S.A.F.E. Inner Child Workshop
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Mark, 40, from Scotland is the founder of Trysted Soul Healing and specialises in healing hidden generational and inner child trauma through his Purpose Driven Trauma Method.
Mark has studied, taught and helped clients all over the world in multiple capacities within the Health & Education sector - School Teacher, Sports Coach, DJ, Business Mentor, Personal Trainer, Master Life Coach, Human Design, Tantra, Breathwork, Somatic Release and Meditation Practitioner and Energy Healer.
Yes knowledge is important; but INFORMATION without INTEGRATION will NEVER give lasting TRANSFORMATION. Mark’s past experiences are what really make him such a profound teacher and healer.
His powerful story includes transcending DFSP cancer, lymes dis-ease, PTSD, debilitating anxiety, deep depression, drug, alcohol and sex addiction, a failed engagement, divorce, losing a child and extreme bullying and violence to name but a few.
Mark sees these experiences as beautiful, essential gifts from God for his soul to transcend, transform and transmute; and were the catalysts to his awakening and commitment to doing the daily inner work.
They left him with no doubt of how worthy of love we all are and the capability of our bodies innate ability to self heal when we give it the right environment.
As one of his old teacher’s Dr. Joe Dispenza told him in 2016 whilst sipping tequila in Puerto Vallarta: “Beautiful Souls Like Yours are Worth Saving”; so his mission is to help beautiful souls like yours heal the root cause of your past trauma, so you can have the loving family dynamic you have always wanted.